Helping Children Meet Their Full Potential Faster
A subject rarely spoken or discussed in society is the abuse of people with developmental disorders and different abilities. These demographics are at a greater risk of abuse & neglect than others as per a survey conducted in 2000 by Sullivan and Knutson. People on the spectrum are more prone to abuse due to limitations in communication, poor social awareness, and being perceived as having cognitive impairments by their neurotypical peers. As concerned family members, community residents, and concerned citizens, it is incumbent on all to spread awareness, and prevent, and report abuse of any nature to someone we know or hear about. In this blog, we are looking at the different ways of Preventing Abuse of Autistic Individuals/Children.
Spreading education –Sexuality, sexual abuse or physical abuse can be difficult topics to talk/discuss with a child, let alone a child with a developmental disorder. Some families choose not to broach these uncomfortable issues as they feel that their child may not be at the receiving end or unable to grasp the nuances of such much–needed conversations. The reality is that such conversations increase their self–awareness, lower risks, and also lead to the reporting of abuses. Topics of discussion include child sexuality education, consent, boundaries and personal space, verbal and physical abuse, and so on. Open communication should be encouraged so they come to you to report any type of abuse (verbal, physical, or sexual).
Lead by personal example in front of the child – Model appropriate behaviors and actions, and encourage others around you to emulate the same. This way the child observes imbibes, and learns. Do not compel your child to hug / kiss a person if they do not wish to. If your child does not appreciate any action on your or anyone else’s part, acknowledge their wishes and do not proceed with it any further. Teach the child to seek permission before any kind of physical contact with any person they come in contact with. Refrain from any verbal abuses or physical violence to anyone, and if displayed apologize and make instant amends.
Take active precautions – You can protect your children from sexual/physical abuse by doing a few things such as:
These are just some ways to ensure that your child is safe from all forms of abuse. Ensuring your child is safe at all times is “work in motion “which needs you to be alert always.
